There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. Surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don’t. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is part of life, getting back up is living.
My initiative to write this post was a talk show that I watched recently. Female infanticide was the topic discussion. The harsh truths were revealed on the show. But my blog post is not about the same. While watching the show my brain started thinking about all the real life circumstances that I have faced in my journey called life. Interesting fact is most of the people who caused major disturbances in my life were women. Briefly put, people who behaved insanely and inhumane with me were mother in law, co-sister, girl friends(mine/someone else’s), aunt’s, sister in laws etc. so it is precisely women who have been the major reason for all the troubles that came my way. The aforementioned relationships were very hard on me all through my life till date. And universal belief that women are being suppressed by men is wrong in my view. It is the women that do the dirty job of bullying, suppressing, bantering, talking behind a person, changing a man’s heart, creating hostile situations etc. all these stuff made me realize that its only women that have been the biggest enemies and obstacles in my life. I withdraw from few situations because of the above mentioned experiences and stopped believing/trusting in women.
I should let them be stuck in their bad karma and falling into their own bad karma cycle -which is not my problem at all. And I don’t want to help them to come out their stupid bad karma cycle. Let them be sick all their life I don’t care about them anymore.
Sincerely feel life had an undo and delete button as I do delete these encounters out of my life. That truly gives me inner peace.
Wish things change and hope to see better people in my future.
I am trying to install twitter gems on ROR. Looks as though I have missed out information on what to do next. It lets me install
gem install twitter
but after that I couldn’t figure out how to do the oauth gem.
It is giving me an error in installing twitter_oauth gem
it says failed to build gem native extension.
«< I am missing some important instructions to figure out the oauth installation.
My idea is to integrate twitter and Facebook for my profiles. Earlier it was integrated by default but at a later point it lost the integration between fb and twitter. Let me see how much I will be successful in doing it.
I will come up with more instructions to install the gems for the integration process.
Check on this space for more of such stuff ..
This opens up all types of capabilities for apps who have multiple actions that can be taken with the content that it shares on your Timeline. The foursquare example is a great one, but for something like Fab.com, you could save an item to buy on its site later: (via Facebook Introduces “Action Links” for Apps)
GitHub’s
.gitignoretemplates are awesome, but mashing them up into a new project can be a pain. Simon Whitaker has created a handy shell script to make that easier:gibo Python vim >> .gitignoreThis will copy the contents of GitHub’s Python and vim templates to your
.gitignore. Brilliant.The script also lets you list all the templates in the GitHub project:
gibo -lCheck out the source on GitHub to check out implementation, usage, or how to contribute.
Update: Lucas let us know about gemignore, his Ruby gem for the same task.
“…As a card-carrying introvert, I am one of the many people whose personality confers on them a preference for the inner world of their own mind rather than the outer world of sociability. Depleted by too much external stimulation, we thrive on reflection and solitude. Our psychic opposites, extraverts, prefer schmoozing and social life because such activities boost their mood. They get bored by too much solitude.
Over the past two decades, scientists have whittled down to five those clusters of cognitions, emotions, motivations, and behaviors that we mean by “personality” factors. Extraversion, and by inference introversion, is chief among them, along with neuroticism, agreeableness, conscientiousness, and openness—psychology’s so-called Big Five. Although introverts and extraverts may seem like they come from different planets, introversion and extraversion exist on a continuous dimension that is normally distributed. There are a few extremely extraverted folk, and a few extreme introverts, while most of us share some extravert and some introvert traits.
Although there is no precise dividing line, there are plenty of introverts around. It’s just that perceptual biases lead us all to overestimate the number of extraverts among us (they are noisier and hog the spotlight). Often confused with shyness, introversion does not imply social reticence or discomfort. Rather than being averse to social engagement, introverts become overwhelmed by too much of it, which explains why the introvert is ready to leave a party after an hour and the extravert gains steam as the night goes on.
Scientists now know that, while introverts have no special advantage in intelligence, they do seem to process more information than others in any given situation. To digest it, they do best in quiet environments, interacting one on one. Further, their brains are less dependent on external stimuli and rewards to feel good.
As a result, introverts are not driven to seek big hits of positive emotional arousal—they’d rather find meaning than bliss—making them relatively immune to the search for happiness that permeates contemporary American culture. In fact, the cultural emphasis on happiness may actually threaten their mental health. As American life becomes increasingly competitive and aggressive, to say nothing of blindingly fast, the pressures to produce on demand, be a team player, and make snap decisions cut introverts off from their inner power source, leaving them stressed and depleted. Introverts today face one overarching challenge—not to feel like misfits in their own culture.”
